Jealousy is as old as this world. It has always existed, and there’s no treatment to cure jealous people. Does it really make us suffer that much? Is it always true that one who is jealous cares? And if it’s impossible to get rid of jealousy, can one learn to live with it?
Jealousy – For Those Who Like it Spicy
Just like hot pepper, jealousy has its fans. If your partner is among them, harmony is out of the question. Human nature is full of paradoxes, and opposites really attract sometimes. However, you may just well as forget about peaceful future, if that’s the case.
Undiverted vigilance of your partner will make you feel the real force of a jealous person’s love. Treat it with calm – after all, it’s not the serene port that you’ve chosen. Provide your ‘love boat’ with a motor and rush towards new adventures TOGETHER. Spiced with jealousy, they’ll be all the more piquant.
Undiverted vigilance of your partner will make you feel the real force of a jealous person’s love. Treat it with calm – after all, it’s not the serene port that you’ve chosen. Provide your ‘love boat’ with a motor and rush towards new adventures TOGETHER. Spiced with jealousy, they’ll be all the more piquant.
When There Is a Reason for Jealousy
Othello may have reasons for being jealous. In this case it’s better to have an objective look at the possible reasons your behavior can provoke. It’ll be useful to discuss what your partner thinks of light flirting and ‘not-so-light’ flirting, and where is the limit for him? On the contrary… Why should you spoil your and your partner’s life? People are not toys to play with: it’s better to give up provocations and the tempting desire to feel yourself like a Desdemona because of the ‘love rules’ not cleared beforehand.
Jealousy as Self-Analysis
You may exclaim: “Who needs love accompanied by scenes of jealousy?” Do not try to simplify it: we often tend to entrust our partner with too great a responsibility. He or she must control everything, be responsible for their deeds, anticipate our desires…or we just require too much from ourselves. Thus, jealousy may have two reasons: it can be provoked by your partner’s weakness (when he is not sure of his virility, etc.). Or it can be a part of the desire to provoke aggression, so as to make your relationship more passionate. In both cases, jealousy is a part of love.
However, being jealous doesn’t’ mean being in love. It can be just a habit or a real demonstration of one’s fear to lose the dearest thing one has. Jealousy can be false or true, passionate or cold, indifferent or vindictive. After all, it’s not for nothing, that it’s one of the sides of this infinity and many-faced feeling – love.